"Also, living with a Jewish wife and daughter, I have a special appreciation for their own uniqueness as Jews and how my mimicking Jewish behavior in some sort of evangelical Jewish cosplay cheapens who they are and totally misrepresents me and all other Gentile disciples of the Master."There are so many classic rebuttals to this attack. Here's one of my favorites:
"Did it cheapen Judah's identity when the other tribes kept the Torah?"
Or how about:
"Did it cheapen Boaz's identity when Ruth kept the Torah?"
We could of course go on and on. Okay, one more:
"Is G-d trying to cheapen Jewish identity when He writes in the Prophets that all people will keep Sukkot in the Messianic Kingdom or that all "flesh" will come to worship before Him on every Shabbat?"
Let's call this "bilateralism" what it really is: RACISM. It's the same affliction of the UMJC and IACMS--they're all a bunch of racists. And I challenge any of them to a public debate on what the Scripture has to say on this matter!
To see an overview of the case for One Law, please read The Messianic Gentile Manifesto.